{"id":64009,"date":"2013-02-20T07:00:31","date_gmt":"2013-02-20T13:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/?p=64009"},"modified":"2025-10-18T09:58:04","modified_gmt":"2025-10-18T15:58:04","slug":"age-appropriate-fashion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/fashion-trends\/age-appropriate-fashion\/","title":{"rendered":"Yes, you can be &#8220;too old&#8221; to wear something"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/age-appropriate-fi.jpg\" alt=\"Pretty older woman smiling\" class=\"wp-image-126451\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/age-appropriate-fi.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/age-appropriate-fi-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/age-appropriate-fi-768x384.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/age-appropriate-fi-500x250.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Can a woman ever be too old to wear something?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Sigh<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Usually, I\u2019m a \u201cwho says you can\u2019t?&#8221; gal, urging ladies to stand up against pointless fashion rules. White after Labor Day? Who says we can\u2019t? A patent leather purse <em>with<\/em>&nbsp;<a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/archive\/leather-shoes-and-leather-purse\/\" title=\"Patent pending: Patent leather shoe &#038; bag combos to love\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" data-wpil-monitor-id=\"898\">patent leather shoes<\/a>? Who says we can\u2019t?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>But my 38-year-old self has one exception when it comes to certain fashions: Age<strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a point when a woman is \u201ctoo old\u201d to wear certain styles. Consider a 48-year-old woman wearing a cat-ear headband to the office. It just renders credibility as a paralegal as, well, not so credible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s why I say yes to the idea of age-appropriate clothing. By this I don\u2019t mean creating a tweed-n-turtleneck-only <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/archive\/wardrobe-staples-women\/\">wardrobe<\/a> immediately following our 35th birthday. By all means, we should flaunt our figures (and hair and nails) while staying on-trend, age be damned.&nbsp; Within reason, that is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What&#8217;s not appropriate<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s easiest to address the age-appropriate fashion question by describing what&#8217;s not appropriate. What I\u2019m talking about are ladies in their mid-30s or older who:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>regularly sport graphic tees with images of a giant M&amp;M, Smurfette or retro Chuck Woolery face<\/li><li>wear sweatpants with suggestive wording sprawled across their rears (not good at any age)<\/li><li>think images of kitty cats (cartoon or actual) on sweaters, totes and scarves are rockin\u2019<\/li><li>insist on trying on clothes as they groove to beat of <em>One Direction<\/em> in the juniors department<\/li><li>routinely wear an&nbsp;off-the-shoulder, mega-high slit dress (think: Jennifer Lopez at the Grammy Awards)<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>What to do then, when the the urge to go too tight or too cutesy knocks at our closet door? Maybe just think about toning it down a notch (or three). Here\u2019s how we can show off our playful side while still looking sassy and classy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Age-appropriate fashion<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The not-too-little lbd<\/h3>\n\n\n<div class=\"shopthepost-widget\" data-widget-id=\"3536129\">\r\n                <script type=\"text\/javascript\" language=\"javascript\">\r\n                    !function(d,s,id){\r\n                        var e, p = \/^http:\/.test(d.location) ? 'http' : 'https';\r\n                        if(!d.getElementById(id)) {\r\n                            e     = d.createElement(s);\r\n                            e.id  = id;\r\n                            e.src = p + ':\/\/widgets.rewardstyle.com\/js\/shopthepost.js';\r\n                            d.body.appendChild(e);\r\n                        }\r\n                        if(typeof window.__stp === 'object') if(d.readyState === 'complete') {\r\n                            window.__stp.init();\r\n                        }\r\n                    }(document, 'script', 'shopthepost-script');\r\n                <\/script>\r\n                <div class=\"rs-adblock\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/\/assets.rewardstyle.com\/images\/search\/350.gif\" style=\"width:15px;height:15px;\" onerror=\"this.parentNode.innerHTML=&#039;Turn off your ad blocker to view content&#039;\" alt=\"\" title=\"\">\r\n                    <noscript>Turn on your JavaScript to view content<\/noscript>\r\n                <\/div>\r\n            <\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cLittle\u201d doesn&#8217;t have to mean teeny. Even if we can knock \u2018em dead in tight clothes, some serious hoochie and unprofessional vibes get in the way of being taken seriously. Wear the LBD, but don\u2019t look like 50 going on 20 with these sexy, stylish numbers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Using our head<\/h3>\n\n\n<div class=\"shopthepost-widget\" data-widget-id=\"3536142\">\r\n                <script type=\"text\/javascript\" language=\"javascript\">\r\n                    !function(d,s,id){\r\n                        var e, p = \/^http:\/.test(d.location) ? 'http' : 'https';\r\n                        if(!d.getElementById(id)) {\r\n                            e     = d.createElement(s);\r\n                            e.id  = id;\r\n                            e.src = p + ':\/\/widgets.rewardstyle.com\/js\/shopthepost.js';\r\n                            d.body.appendChild(e);\r\n                        }\r\n                        if(typeof window.__stp === 'object') if(d.readyState === 'complete') {\r\n                            window.__stp.init();\r\n                        }\r\n                    }(document, 'script', 'shopthepost-script');\r\n                <\/script>\r\n                <div class=\"rs-adblock\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/\/assets.rewardstyle.com\/images\/search\/350.gif\" style=\"width:15px;height:15px;\" onerror=\"this.parentNode.innerHTML=&#039;Turn off your ad blocker to view content&#039;\" alt=\"\" title=\"\">\r\n                    <noscript>Turn on your JavaScript to view content<\/noscript>\r\n                <\/div>\r\n            <\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Trade the ear\/face panda hat or tough skater girl cap for these head-turning toppers. They\u2019re fashionable and still fun, and no one will think we lost our Mommy at the zoo when we wear them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Say no to getting high<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sigh. I love heels (who knew?), so this is hard to say. Really hard. But too high is too high. Heels are still OK, but pass on the ridiculously sky-high ones that have the potential to put our image and our ankles on shaky ground.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"shopthepost-widget\" data-widget-id=\"3536153\">\r\n                <script type=\"text\/javascript\" language=\"javascript\">\r\n                    !function(d,s,id){\r\n                        var e, p = \/^http:\/.test(d.location) ? 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Just make the statement with pattern and style \u2014 not with height.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">That&#8217;s pretty graphic<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Skip the Kool-Aid Man graphic, crude wording and sloppy top designs and opt for toned-down patterns. Wear abstract styles or other fun looks that turn heads for all the right reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Be kind to animals<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Puppies and kittens are adorable, I don\u2019t care how old you are. But declaring your fondness with a feline-embroidered knapsack (at work) takes us from cute to kitschy (bad kinda kitschy) in a heartbeat. Goodbye, Hello Kitty. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"shopthepost-widget\" data-widget-id=\"3536160\">\r\n                <script type=\"text\/javascript\" language=\"javascript\">\r\n                    !function(d,s,id){\r\n                        var e, p = \/^http:\/.test(d.location) ? 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Try a snake print shoe, leopard accessory or zebra-striped belt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pretty in punk (Ish)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ditch the spikes and bad-ass edge. We&#8217;re grown, not Goth. Trade it for something that maintains an air of fierceness without looking like tough gal Abby on <em>NCIS.<\/em> (Yes, she is over 40 IRL, but Abby is <em>not<\/em> student of age-appropriate fashion).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can a woman ever be too old to wear something? Sigh. Usually, I\u2019m a \u201cwho says you can\u2019t?&#8221; gal, urging ladies to stand up against pointless fashion rules. White after Labor Day? Who says we can\u2019t? A patent leather purse with&nbsp;patent leather shoes? Who says we can\u2019t?&nbsp;&nbsp; But my 38-year-old self has one exception when&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/fashion-trends\/age-appropriate-fashion\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Yes, you can be &#8220;too old&#8221; to wear something<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":854,"featured_media":126450,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[303935],"class_list":["post-64009","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fashion-trends","tag-40-plus-style"],"mv":{"thumbnail_id":126450,"thumbnail_uri":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/age-appropriate-fi-300x150.jpg"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64009","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/854"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64009"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64009\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/126450"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64009"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64009"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64009"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}