{"id":37567,"date":"2011-02-07T14:00:09","date_gmt":"2011-02-07T20:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/?p=37567"},"modified":"2025-10-18T09:24:43","modified_gmt":"2025-10-18T15:24:43","slug":"how-be-your-own-stylist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/fashion-trends\/how-be-your-own-stylist\/","title":{"rendered":"How to be your own stylist"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There&#8217;s a reason you associate Taylor Swift<strong> <\/strong>with sparkly cocktail dresses and Gwyneth Paltrow with solid sheaths. It\u2019s the same reason Carrie Bradshaw is synonymous with Manolo Blahnik and everyone\u2019s expectations for Anne Hathaway\u2019s Oscar wardrobe are so high. One word: stylist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the person who knows what\u2019s in and what\u2019s out, what\u2019s you and what needs to be burned, the one who makes you look fabulous without making it look like you tried at all. Don\u2019t have one of those people in your Rolodex? Neither do we. No worries, though. You don\u2019t need a personal stylist. You just need to master these five steps. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/How-be-stylist.jpg\" alt=\"How to be your own stylist.\" class=\"wp-image-1649414\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/How-be-stylist.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/How-be-stylist-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/How-be-stylist-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/How-be-stylist-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/How-be-stylist-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/How-be-stylist-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/How-be-stylist-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Source: Envato.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Find your signature style<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Find a look that\u2019s all your own based on your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/archive\/what-is-my-style\/\">personality<\/a>, your body and your lifestyle. Go cool-mom chic like Katie Holmes, hippie-chic like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/archive\/vanessa-hudgens-steal-her-style\/\">Vanessa Hudgens<\/a> or just plain chic like Victoria Beckham. Once you\u2019ve chosen the look that\u2019s you, stick to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CylN2sbtdg9\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\"background:#FFF;border:0;border-radius:3px;margin: 1px;max-width:540px;min-width:326px;padding:0;width:99.375%;width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px);width:calc(100% - 2px)\"><div style=\"padding:16px\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CylN2sbtdg9\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\"background:#FFFFFF;line-height:0;padding:0 0;text-align:center;text-decoration:none;width:100%\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <div style=\"display: flex;flex-direction: row;align-items: center\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 50%;flex-grow: 0;height: 40px;margin-right: 14px;width: 40px\"><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex;flex-direction: column;flex-grow: 1;justify-content: center\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;margin-bottom: 6px;width: 100px\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;width: 60px\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div style=\"padding: 19% 0\"><\/div> <div style=\"display:block;height:50px;margin:0 auto 12px;width:50px\"><\/div><div style=\"padding-top: 8px\"> <div style=\"color:#3897f0;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-style:normal;font-weight:550;line-height:18px\">View this post on Instagram<\/div><\/div><div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0\"><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex;flex-direction: row;margin-bottom: 14px;align-items: center\"><div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 50%;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px;flex-grow: 0;margin-right: 14px;margin-left: 2px\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 50%;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: 8px\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 50%;flex-grow: 0;height: 20px;width: 20px\"><\/div> <div style=\"width: 0;height: 0;border-top: 2px solid transparent;border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4;border-bottom: 2px solid transparent\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: auto\"> <div style=\"width: 0px;border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4;border-right: 8px solid transparent\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;flex-grow: 0;height: 12px;width: 16px\"><\/div> <div style=\"width: 0;height: 0;border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4;border-left: 8px solid transparent\"><\/div><\/div><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex;flex-direction: column;flex-grow: 1;justify-content: center;margin-bottom: 24px\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;margin-bottom: 6px;width: 224px\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;width: 144px\"><\/div><\/div><span class=\"wpil-link-icon\" title=\"Link goes to external site.\" style=\"margin: 0 0 0 5px;\"><svg width=\"24\" height=\"24\" style=\"height:16px; 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width:16px; fill:#000000; stroke:#000000; display:inline-block;\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.1\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" xmlns:svg=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><use href=\"#wpil-svg-outbound-7-icon-path\"><\/use><\/svg><\/span><\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n<script src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>This is harder than it looks, because you\u2019ll have to have the gall to look at yourself through the discriminating eyes of a stylist. You may love Kim Kardashian\u2019s sexy slew of mini dresses, but her style won\u2019t work for the office. And you may adore the season\u2019s hot <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/archive\/wide-leg-pants\/\" title=\"Fall trends now: Wide leg pants\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" data-wpil-monitor-id=\"4259\">wide leg pants<\/a>, but do they really look good on your figure? Be honest with yourself. Once you\u2019ve got that down, it\u2019s time for the fun part&#8211; shopping!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Begin with the basics<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Building a wardrobe starts with purging. Go through your closet and toss or donate everything that doesn&#8217;t fit or flatter. With that out of the way, you&#8217;ll know what you have to work with and what you need to put on your shopping list.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can take years to build your wardrobe, but you don&#8217;t need to have your closet full in order to rock your signature look. Just make sure you buy the right things. Five items to consider: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>A good pair of jeans <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Handbag you love (my pick right now? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/archive\/top-handle-bag\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"1649264\">Levantine&#8217;s Layla bag<\/a>)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Shoes that are versatile and comfortable <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A staple accessory: watch, strand of pearls, or goes-with-everything belt <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<p >No products found.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>As you expand your wardrobe, think systematically: Know what you have and buy pieces that coordinate. That way, you&#8217;ll get maximum use out of minimal pieces.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Have a bag of tricks<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Did you know&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Aquaphor will help your feet slip into too-tight shoes <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hairspray can stop a runner in your tights<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fashion tape is a must-have for wrap-style tops and dresses <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pasties can keep your fav party dress from turning x-rated in the wrong light <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>A good stylist knows how to avoid wardrobe malfunctions and keeps a stash of emergency items.<\/p>\n\n\n<p >No products found.<\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Pay attention to detail<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There is more to a look than just a dress, shoes, and bag. Reflect on the total picture when piecing together your ensemble. From lip and nail color to hairstyle and even skin tone, the difference between \u201ceh\u201d and \u201cwow\u201d is all in the details. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s easier to manage the big picture if you limit your options when you shop. For example, can&#8217;t afford a spray tan? Don\u2019t buy a dress that washes you out. Hate wearing Spanx? Find an ensemble that flatters your curves on its own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Play dress up<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Experimenting with separates, accessories, and trends isn&#8217;t just the best way to establish your style. It is the only way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rather than rushing in and out of stores like you&#8217;re on a mission, take a Saturday afternoon to invest in yourself and your appearance. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/archive\/fall-fashion-colors\/\">Try colors<\/a> you haven&#8217;t tried before, and be open to new silhouettes and trends. If you&#8217;re not confident yet in your own opinion, bring a friend with you. Make sure you pick the friend who&#8217;ll tell you when something looks off &#8212; it&#8217;s the best way to learn what flatters your shape and skin tone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you feel fabulous in what you&#8217;re wearing, that&#8217;s when you know you&#8217;ve mastered your style.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s a reason you associate Taylor Swift with sparkly cocktail dresses and Gwyneth Paltrow with solid sheaths. It\u2019s the same reason Carrie Bradshaw is synonymous with Manolo Blahnik and everyone\u2019s expectations for Anne Hathaway\u2019s Oscar wardrobe are so high. One word: stylist. It\u2019s the person who knows what\u2019s in and what\u2019s out, what\u2019s you and&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/fashion-trends\/how-be-your-own-stylist\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">How to be your own stylist<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1649412,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[303916],"class_list":["post-37567","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fashion-trends","tag-what-to-wear"],"mv":{"thumbnail_id":1649412,"thumbnail_uri":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/outdoor-summer-portrait-of-elegant-fashionable-woman-1200_x_630-300x158.jpg"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37567","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37567"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37567\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1649412"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37567"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37567"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thebudgetfashionista.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37567"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}